For teens growing up;
Life, the Universe, & Witchcraft
Because of some of the content in my site, from time to time I
receive e-mail from people who have nothing to do with computers
or networks. In fact this happens a lot compared to the hits I
get for my resume. Depressing.
I recently received an e-mail from a young teen aged girl. And no
I wont say who. She, like me, is a viewer of Charmed on TV.
And of course the questions were all about magic spells and boys.
The net effect was the desire to overcome her fear of the usual things
kids fear at that age.
Growing up isnt easy. The fear we have growing up and
interacting with others is often a symptom of lack of understanding
and faith in ones self. Ill let you in on a little secret kids,
it happens to adults too. A lot of people dont feel really
comfortable in their own skins. You want to get rid of the fear,
you need to find a way to be happy with yourself first. You want to
ask somebody on a date? First know that whoever you ask has their
own fears and uncertainties. And if they should reject you, yes it
will probably hurt for a bit. But in the longer run, it will be
their loss not yours. Hard to believe I know, but very true.
As to magic, well, thats a different kettle of fish. Back up
a minute and consider your spirituality. Spirituality has to do
with how you honor yourself and how you honor and relate to things
which are bigger than you, really bigger, like the Universe and beyond.
Witchcraft is one example. As are Christianity, Islam, Buddhism,
Hinduism, the Jewish tradition, and other isms. Witchcraft in
particular is a nature tradition and has to do with the universe around
us and the forces that make it work. Contrary to popular belief
there is nothing evil about it. Witchcraft doesnt even have
the concept of the devil in it. The modern concept of a devil was
invented and solidified by the Christian Church between about the
11th and 13th centuries. The History Channel did a very good hour long
documentary on it. But the information is out there for anyone to
find. Witchcraft acknowledges a Creator, no devil.
Magick (with a K to distinguish it from stage magic) is the ritual
by which one acknowledges and relates to the Universe and the forces
that inhabit it. In Witchcraft there is no duality, the Creator and
the created are one, a concept which modern physics
accepts in the form of quantum entanglement. We are all one and connected.
What affects you also to some extent affects me. If I harm you I harm
me as well. From basic principles we thus arrive at Harm none, and do
what you will which is considered to be a basic tenet of Witchcraft and
its many offshoots such as Wicca.
Which brings me to another point. Actions have consequences. Whatever
you put out into the Universe comes back to you. It is often spoken of in
Witchcraft as the rule of 3 or the Three Fold law. Whatever you send out
comes back to you multiplied; in this case times 3. Another good reason to
harm none, intentionally anyway. Harm may come but intent is everything
especially if you are Buddhist.
Can magic make someone love you? I will answer this by saying if
you were to MAKE someone love you it would be corrupt because it would
not be an honest choice. By making someone do anything you are reducing
their choices and harming them. That is against the rule which says
to harm none. And can real love be forced anyway? That would be no better
than drugging them. While possibly pleasurable for a time there would
be longer term consequences that you wouldnt find quite so pleasant.
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